I consider myself lucky. My wife bought me a starter set three years ago for my birthday. I have since found my new hobby and sport not to mention a great group of people who enjoy the same sport. Now I spend my early mornings when I can playing. Not to mention sneaking out for a round in the afternoon or evening. I tried to get my wife into it but right now it does not seem like her thing. So, I enjoy it all by myself until the kiddos get old enough to throw with daddy. We really are lucky in KC to have so many great tracks, people, enthusiasts, players and spectators. To ignore all of that would be like not showering.